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I wanted to respond to Kyle's post directly but then I found it was really challenging to really listen. To listen means to empty your mind and be open.

I care deeply for this community and I noticed I was getting a bit defensive and emotional. This means I was not able to really engage with that post using the mind, the language the audience there respects.

It takes a certain type of mind to be objective and lay out all the claims, trace the assumptions, steel man your opposing side and sincerely try to assist in truth seeking. I admire the rationalists who practice this and these accusations are active in that part of the internet where the standard for what is true is based on how transparent are the parties, do they seem logical in how they trace the causal chains of the events, are they engaging with critique in good faith, have they shown epistemic humility to update or are they holding onto some position as if its load bearing for their identity, what is the track record for their predictions, is the analysis comprehensive, and I could go on

This is based on a trust that it is a weakness to be attached to any position, to care emotionally and rather trust the process. Debate, argue and the "true" position will win.

This can be true if we have a container like a courtroom where we have systems in place to make it more likely that happens but on the internet it becomes mob justice. I do not think most groups have great epistemic standards.

So it takes time and effort to respond in this manner and the stakes are high here, this is a organization trying to some very difficult things, this affects maple's reputation. People are giving up their time, attention, trusting the container to train at this academy and if they are being harmed that is also a very serious matter.

I found it and still find it hard to speak up on a comment thread because I know how it is like to scream into the internet, how easy it is for your words to be taken out of context and used against you and the values you cherish.

That objective mind can deal with the internet, it can decouple well, draw boundaries and be impersonal. It helps to be precise and careful, slow and methodical. But then that would be hypocrisy to use that mind unskillfully to defend a community that showed me the dangers of letting that mind optimize without limit.

If there is one thing I sorta learned from my experiences visiting as an AI fellow at MAPLE and even doing a month of training is that that mind is the emissary and not supposed to be king. Another thing is that direct experience is a better standard to judge someone/something than hearsay so you can visit and see for yourself who the people are and talk to them, make up your own mind.

I would advice taking it slow and really being careful with the commitments you make because you can hurt yourself if you don't take spiritual training seriously.

I have direct experience of being with this community. Friends of mine have visited MAPLE on my recommendation and I have talked to people who have trained there. If you who is reading this wants to get on a video call with me and ask me questions I am happy to give you my time and promise to be honest.

I would rather help people while staying in relationship because that is how we survive these difficult times. There is no simple story that I can craft that can do justice to the raw complexity of reality that you would experience.

Reach out to me at adityaarpitha@gmail.com

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I came across this website recently: https://omnicide.exposed/ . I wonder if Kyle's critique meets the author's criteria for legitimate:

"A legitimate critique would include, at minimum, one concrete and independently verifiable claim — submitted either publicly or through private channels — that the author, having spent years in residential training at MAPLE and having investigated these matters in depth, could not in good conscience dismiss."

Hard to know anything in these he said she said days of internet insanity.

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